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Growing Up … People Say Grow up Please

So often do we hear it from our near and dear ones, this one comment when they say grow up .. why aren’t you grow up. What is it that they are trying to say or make a mention about when they are not able to understand us. I want to talk about it today,I want to make mention, for those who chooses to skip the topic to avoid any debate.

Life has so many different chapters. One bad chapter does not mean it’s the end of the book. The fact that you are going through a tough character building situation does not mean it won’t get better for you tomorrow.
Every experience is an encounter, which helps us grow up in our space.Then why do people often say we need to grow up, this is something that has baffled me mostly.No two experiences are same, life gives each of us a fair chance to learn and to grow.Life can be so much better for you! See it! Believe it!  But that’s not always the case with others, we need compassion to understand what others go through.Why do they behave or act in a manner they do.
You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re- reading the last one. Don’t hold yourself ! Release yourself! Forgive yourself and anyone that caged you in the memories of the pass for so long! Say out loud, “Dear past, thank you for all the lessons. Dear future, I’m now ready!” You can’t have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time. Forget about what happened, and expect the best to happen to you! We need to evolve, we need to grow up ! Yes grow up in our interactions. Let bygones be bygones.
The future is beautiful! Don’t allow your past experiences to reduce your expectations for tomorrow, no matter what you ever went through or the mistakes you did, no past is ugly enough to stop the beauty of the future!
Lemme say it, in case you didn’t hear me! NO PAST IS UGLY ENOUGH TO STOP THE BEAUTY OF THE FUTURE! YOUR FUTURE!!!
So what is growing up,it’s the care and concern of our loved ones who are seeing life from their looking glass, a different perspective I say.. and what we behave and act is from our looking glass..
Live every day as if it’s your last, embracing each experience as if it’s your first. Hope only for goodness! Expect only the best! Use the past; Let it make you better not bitter. Past can hurt but you can either run from it or learn from it. Decide to start again, it’s never late to take a turn around towards your greatness!
Allow yourself to be a beginner. No one starts off being excellent. Take steps towards the life you have imagined! A better life awaits you! So growing up is an expression from those where there is a gap.. when we are not able to understand their deep down desire. Unfortunately, growing up is an expression and n experience for all.. n doesn’t come with a manual.
“True mark of maturity is when someone hurts u and you try to understand their situation, instead of hurting them back.”

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